To Have Loved and Gain

Falling in love is the most difficult thing a person can do. To truly love someone, you have to be completely self-less. You have to forgive and be accountable. You have to be loyal and thoughtful. Until you can do these things without thinking twice; you're not in love. Love is a serious sentiment; and today to many people throw it around with no real commitment. My partner and I had the rockiest beginning. We were tested and when we thought we passed, we were tested again. The moment it became real to us, is when we could say :"I love you" and not think twice. It took a long time. It took many fights. It took many tears. When it's right, nothing beats that feeling. Our son will have two great parents, who fell together...then fell in love. We took our time.